Tag Archives: betrayal

D-Day

Posted on 19/09/2012 by ibgg

So it has finally come…. You’ve announced that you’re leaving Thursday and i guess this is supposed to be for good.  You haven’t made any compromises that would hold out hope for a future together. Even as you’ve acknowledged that … Continue reading →

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The second night of your flight

Posted on 31/05/2012 by ibgg

You promised in sickness and health, yet here I am alone.   I walked home alone from the A & E department at 2 in the morning and I could only cry why.  I start composing so many messages to you … Continue reading →

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Wow….!!!

Posted on 18/12/2011 by ibgg

I thought that it couldn’t get any worse, I really didn’t think it could but you’ve proved me wrong.  I still can’t believe it really.  My head feels heavy and my eyes hurt but my heart feels empty like there’s … Continue reading →

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Reconciliation…??

Posted on 05/10/2011 by ibgg

So after 2 nights days of Oliver leading us in reflection you’ve answered yes to the question of whether there’s any reason to fight for this marriage!!  I still don’t really believe it and I still have not heard what’s … Continue reading →

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Father of Lies

Posted on 25/08/2011 by ibgg

So the lies come tumbling down, but then you continue to spin and spin them until I think you’ve managed to lie to yourself. You’ve made no effort to go to your son’s wedding and when I make the comment, … Continue reading →

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London’s burning…

Posted on 10/08/2011 by ibgg

And so is my life.  Everything up in flames!!  I don’t have a husband, protector, carer, friend, lover, companion to laugh with and talk with any more.  You’ve decided you no longer want to hold me, make love to me … Continue reading →

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Exposed!

Posted on 07/08/2011 by ibgg

So we’re coming closer to the truth now.  You’ve been insisting that you are not having an affair or been involved with anyone but I don’t know how you explain your reaction today when  I talked about my father and … Continue reading →

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Destroying Myself

Posted on 25/07/2011 by ibgg

So although I cried and prayed and called out to God to take control, although I put this whole situation and you into His hands and said Lord your will be done, I’ve failed to just rest again. They say … Continue reading →

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